And when I am stressed/upset/whatever I go to one of two extremes
1. sleep/laziness (which isn't really an option with a newborn and a toddler)
2. productivity mode
Today I have done all the normal stuff (feeding/caring for the boys) plus - gave Wink a bath, did some laundry, unloaded dishwasher, decluttered/dusted/vacuumed the main rooms, made homemade baked potato soup for lunch. I feel better.
Now if the boys can coordinate their naps today so I can have a few moments of laziness, that would be excellent.